What To Do When You Are More Fun Than Your Spouse
Do you sometimes envy couples that are practically skipping down the street while holding hands and seemingly having the time of their lives? You may wonder what the secret is to achieving the same level of serotonin to flow between you and your spouse that will lead to more fun-filled happiness. If you feel that you are more fun than your spouse, it does well to remember that no-one is happy all the time and some people need less dopamine-fueled activities to make them happy than others. But there are some sure-fire ways to bring more fun into your relationship and it is never too late to adopt them into your relationship.
Lighten up by finding fun games to play anywhere that both of you will find hilarious. A simple game is asking “Would you Rather” questions that will not only open up fun debates when you follow it up with “why”, but will give you the opportunity to find out more about each other and what your spouse considers to be fun. When a surprising answer comes up you can follow it up with a jesting answer like “And I thought I knew you”?
Cultivating and Maintaining a Good Friendship.
If your relationship does not include a solid friendship beyond the sexual and romantic connection you share with your spouse, having fun can be challenging at the best of times. A good friendship is a foundation for having long-lasting fun together and what can be more fun than hanging out with your best friend?
Planning for Fun Times.
Make time for fun activities that will help you unwind together and help you get out of the rut of “dinner and a movie”. Try something new and plan an out-of-town fun trip every now and then away from everyday life.
Budget for fun.
Add an item called “Couple Fun” into your budget that is guaranteed to add some marital satisfaction and fun time. It doesn’t need to break the bank but occasionally planning a fun event to spoil your spouse is an investment that is just as important as a retirement plan or the children’s education.
Nothing too ridiculous or drastic is called for here, but it is worth investing in fun for the sake of a happy marriage. Many people believe that fun can only be had when couples are completely compatible, however, compatibility is not something you discover but something you choose. You can choose to blend your differences and even though it may sometimes require hard work, you could look at it as “fun work”. When you have found ways to introduce more fun into your marriage it won’t seem like such hard work after all.
How To Determine Whether You Are Fun Cat Or Lame Cat
It is never great when you are what some would consider lame cat, but this is further compounded when you are unaware. The idea of someone believing they are fun cat when they are the complete opposite is downright sad. If you are unsure of which category you fall in, sit back for a moment and consider all of this.
Friday Night Choices
What is it that you do on Friday nights? Are you out spending some time with all of your friends, partying until the wee hours? Do you prefer sitting around finishing up homework and making sure that you will be prepared for Monday? If you answered affirmatively to the last one, you are undoubtedly lame cat.
Sure, it is the adult thing to do, but everyone knows that waiting until the last minute will leave you a lot more time to have fun.
Level of Seriousness
If you cannot take a joke, then it is safe to say that you are not fun cat. While everyone out there doesn’t share a universal sense of humor, it is unacceptable to be super serious all of the time. When you are at work or dealing with heavy life issues, then being stiff makes all of the sense in the world, but who wants to hang out with someone who can never let their hair down and enjoy the moment. Oh yeah, that’s right, other lame cats.
A huge indicator of whether or not someone is lame is how open they are to new things, people and ideas. How can you dare to call yourself fun cat when you are always sitting on the sidelines judging because things are different than what you are used to? This is not a dig at conservative ideals versus liberal ones, especially since there are people on both ends of that spectrum who know how to let loose and have a great time.
With all of that being said, if you have nothing better to do than continuously surrounding yourself with the same things and the same people without stepping outside of the box ever, you are indeed lame.
Being fun does not mean that you have no grasp of responsibility or you are living your life in the wrong manner. The point is to know when it is time to take life seriously and when having a great time can be at the top of your to-do list.
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